Mental health is a state of well-being in which every individual realises his or her own potential, can cope with the normal stresses of life, can work productively and fruitfully, and is able to make a contribution to her or his community.
St. Mary’s Catholic High School has a tiered approach to supporting the Mental Health and Emotional Wellbeing of our pupils. Our whole school mission and ethos, policies, pastoral system and best practice support positive Mental Health and Emotional Wellbeing of all children. Where children show emerging needs, they are supported by targeted provision available in school through the Wellbeing Team (Early Help Provision). Pupils with more complex needs will supported by the help of specialist external agencies.
At St Mary’s, we aim to promote positive mental health for every member of our staff and student body. We pursue this aim using both universal, whole school approaches and specialised, targeted approaches to support our young people. In addition to promoting positive mental health, we aim to recognise and respond to mental ill health. In 2022, 18.0% of children aged 7 to 16 years and 22.0% of young people aged 17 to 24 years had a probable mental disorder (NHS statistics). St Mary’s has the established Wellbeing Team in-house to address the needs of our most vulnerable students and families, in conjunction with the existing pastoral support structure. The Wellbeing Team is comprised of an Early Help Coordinator and Family Resource worker (also the Deputy Designated Safeguarding Lead) School Counsellors, Compass Changing Loves Mental Health Support Team and the NHS School Nursing Team. The Wellbeing Team does not replace Social Care or clinical mental health support.
There is more awareness than ever about mental health and the importance of emotional wellbeing throughout our society. There are many agencies and organisations we can turn to for help when we feel unable to cope, however, we can also look after ourselves more effectively to protect our emotional health. We are keen to instil resilience and independence in all of our students, and self-care plays a significant part in this. How much we sleep, what we eat and drink, how much we exercise all affect how we feel physically and emotionally. The world we live in is arguably more demanding than in the past, so the strategies we use to cope with stress are also crucial in maintaining a healthy, positive and productive lifestyle.
To encourage and support our school community in developing and maintaining positive emotional health, we have complied an A-Z directory of organisations and advice on self-care. We hope that this will help our students, parents, carers and staff in taking a proactive approach to taking good care of their wellbeing. We believe that this is essential for everyone to achieve their God given potential and lead a happy and purposeful life.
Anger Management
Dealing with anger in teenagers | Familylives
Helping a Young Person Manage Anger | Mental Health | YoungMinds
Information for 11-18 year olds on dealing with anger - Mind
Anger management for teens - Support for Parents from Action For Children
Anger Management In Teens: How Parents Can Help To Overcome It? (masteringanger.com)
Child to parent/carer abuse
Child-to-Parent Abuse | RISE (riseuk.org.uk)
Drugs & Alcohol Services
Young People's Service, Derbyshire (changegrowlive.org)
Young people support :: Derbyshire Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust (derbydrugandalcohol.nhs.uk)
Family Support Services | Derbyshire Recovery Partnerships
Honest information about drugs | FRANK (talktofrank.com)
Derbyshire Alcohol Advice Service - DAAS
Derby Drug and Alcohol Recovery Service | Derby Adult Support Service (aquarius.org.uk)
Addiction Help Derbyshire (eata.org.uk)
Alcoholics Anonymous Great Britain (alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk)
Talking about alcohol - A guide for parents
FINANCIAL ISSUES
CAB
Citizens Advice Chesterfield (Chesterfieldcab.co.uk)
DCC Financial Support Page
Synergy - Search By Route (Derbyshire.gov.uk)
DCC Help with Fuel Costs
Energy costs and grants - Derbyshire County Council
Derbyshire Discretionary Fund (DDF) - Derbyshire County Council
Tenancy Sustainment
Tenancy and estate management (chesterfield.gov.uk)
Welfare Rights
Welfare benefits - Derbyshire County Council
HEALTHY LIVING
Digital Life Balance
Screen time advice hub for parents | Internet Matters
Screen time and kids: Tips for managing your family's screen time - Own It - BBC
Healthy Eating Habits
Eating well 12-18yr olds JuLY '10_Layout 1 (cwt.org.uk)
Kids and Food: 10 Tips for Parents (for Parents) - Nemours KidsHealth
Healthy Eating Tips for Parents
Advice for parents of healthy-weight children - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
Healthy eating for young people (derbyshireteenhealth.nhs.uk)
Sleep Hygiene for Teens
Sleep Hygiene — CAMHS (camhsnorthderbyshire.nhs.uk) (derbyshireteenhealth.nhs.uk)
Sleep hygiene in children and young people | Great Ormond Street Hospital (gosh.nhs.uk)
Exercise/Keeping Active
Keeping active :: Derbyshire Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust (derbyshirehealthcareft.nhs.uk)
About physical activity - Mind
MENTAL HEALTH
General Mental Health
Safety Plans & Mental Health Challenge the Storm
CAMHS (camhsnorthderbyshire.nhs.uk)
Young people's mental health - Derbyshire County Council
Compass Changing Lives - Compass (compass-uk.org)
YoungMinds | Mental Health Charity For Children And Young People | YoungMinds
5-19 years school nursing service (dchs.nhs.uk)
Signs That a Child Is Suffering From Mental Health Issues | NSPCC
Improving children’s and young people's mental health – Place2Be
Supporting your child with the secondary school transition
How Parents Can Help With Secondary School Transition | YoungMinds
Supporting-children-through-secondary-transition-v2 (annafreud.org)
Moving Up! The transition to secondary school : Mentally Healthy Schools
Building Resilience
Building resilience in children and teens | Family Lives
Why it is important to support young people in being more resilient (worthit.org.uk)
Building Resilience in Teens: The 7 Cs (parentandteen.com)
Exam Stress
Information for 11-18 year olds – Exam stress - Mind
Exam Stress | How To Deal with Exam Stress | YoungMinds
Help your child beat exam stress - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
Coping with exam pressure - a guide for students - GOV.UK (www.gov.uk)
Exam Time & Exam Stress | Parents Guide To Support | YoungMinds
Staying mentally healthy during exams | Resources | YoungMinds
Stress
10 Ways to Manage Everyday Stress (for Teens) - Nemours KidsHealth
Managing stress and building resilience - tips - Mind
Coping with stress for young people| Royal College of Psychiatrists (rcpsych.ac.uk)
Stress - Every Mind Matters - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
10 stress busters - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
Mindfulness
Top 50 Mindfulness Resources for Children & Teens – Big Life Journal UK (biglifejournal-uk.co.uk
Mindfulness Activities | Mental Health Resources | YoungMinds
Mindfulness - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
Anxiety
Anxiety - Every Mind Matters - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
Anxiety and Anxiety Disorders | Signs and symptoms | YoungMinds
How can I help when my child feels anxious? - Support for Parents from Action For Children
Compass Changing Lives - Compass (compass-uk.org)
5 Ways to Cope With Anxiety (for Teens) - Nemours KidsHealth
Anxiety - Every Mind Matters - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
Anxiety and panic attacks - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
Anxiety signs and symptoms - Mind
Anxiety and Anxiety Disorders | Signs and symptoms | YoungMinds
Depression/Low Mood
Depression in children and young people - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
Depression | Signs and Symptoms | Mental Health | YoungMinds
Parent's Guide to Teen Depression - HelpGuide.org
How to Help Children Suffering From Depression & Anxiety | NSPCC
Eating Disorders/Body Image
Eating disorders :: Derbyshire Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust (derbyshirehealthcareft.nhs.uk)
TEAM: Eating Disorders — CAMHS (camhsnorthderbyshire.nhs.uk)
Body Image and Self-Esteem (for Teens) - Nemours KidsHealth
Eating disorders - Live Life Better Derbyshire
Advice for parents – Eating disorders - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
What To Do If You're Experiencing Eating Problems | YoungMinds
Self Harm/Suicidal thoughts
CAMHS (camhsnorthderbyshire.nhs.uk
Papyrus UK Suicide Prevention | Prevention of Young Suicide (papyrus-uk.org)
Youth and children | The Salvation Army
Young people | Emotional health resources | Mental health | Samaritans
Suicidal Feelings | Help And Advice For Young People | YoungMinds
Support for Children and Young People - No More Suicides (no-more.co.uk)
Useful contacts - 11-18 year old's mental health - Mind
RELATIONSHIPS & FAMILY LIFE
Bereavement
Bereavement and loss - Derbyshire County Council
Bereavement :: Chesterfield Royal Hospital
Local Services – Derbyshire Bereavement Hub
Home - Cruse Bereavement Support
Domestic Abuse
Freedom From Domestic Abuse | Everyone Deserves To Feel Safe (theelmfoundation.org.uk)
Domestic abuse (saferderbyshire.gov.uk)
Domestic violence (chesterfield.gov.uk)
Healthy Relationships
Counselling In Chesterfield And North East Derbyshire | Relate (relatechesterfield.org.uk)
Characteristics of Healthy & Unhealthy Relationships | Youth.gov
Family Life/Parenting
Family Counselling Session | Chesterfield & North Derbyshire Relate (relatechesterfield.org.uk)
Parenting teenagers | Family Lives
Coping with your teenager - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
Parents Mental Health Support | Advice for Your Child | YoungMinds
Parenting support services | Action For Children
Advice to parents and carers on gangs (publishing.service.gov.uk)
Parental/Family Separation
Divorce & Young People's Mental Health | Parent Guide | YoungMinds
Helping Your Child Cope with Your Divorce or Separation | NSPCC
Divorce and separation - Cafcass - Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service